As you begin thinking about where you might be going it is important to clean and organize where you are now. This is the time to close this chapter of your life. You have a lot of decisions to make. It is also time to clean where you are living now and to decide what you want to bring with you. Packing for a move is the perfect time to make room for the new that lies ahead. Begin with the area you sleep in now. That way you will have a clean organized place to rest! There are lots of resources available on line and books to help you with this organization. This is a great time to create a pretty memory box. You will be going through items and finding treasures. If you have children, you could encourage them to choose a few special items for their memory box. This is a wonderful way to teach them about taking care of treasures and how to let go of items that they have outgrown. Make a special box of toys or clothes they have outgrown and take items to a charity shop together. It is in the doing that the lesson is taught. The words need actions to take them to heart.
At one time in our married life we had been moved out of state by the company my hubby worked for. A health issue caused us to have to move back to Pennsylvania. This situation forced hard choices to be made. What helped me was to find a home for some things with the friends I had made in the area. One neighbor was happy to receive a sled and a child’s table and chairs. Another took an old oak dresser and to my delight she removed the legs, added castors and put on a butcher block top. This she used in her kitchen. Seeing others happy made my transition much easier.
When doing my spring or fall cleaning, I would always keep a charity bag near where I was working. This has always helped me to keep control on clutter. I make my own gifts by baking or sewing. I have grouped baking items in a specific spot and all my sewing supplies in another. If someone shares fabric, I wash it immediately and add it to the bookcase I keep fabric in. If someone shares something I cannot use it goes into the charity box. If I know of someone who can use it I also share but do so without pressure. It is vital that when something enters the house it be useful and has a place.
Move through out where you are and keep only what you truly love, that you use regularly, is needed for daily life or is a treasured heirloom. Things are meant to be used, keeping something because you feel guilt is not something to move forward with. Try to find someone who would love it or donate it to charity. It will bring value and joy to another’s life.
I hope you have been following my encouragement for planning for your new home. I will share my dream list with you:
2. Porch or somewhere to sit with flowers
3. A Home Church
4. An eat-in kitchen
5. A spot where I could sew and not have to take down my sewing machine
Vital – Affordability — A place where we would be comfortable and be able to live within our means.
I would say that the kitchen was the most important room to me. We love to have folks around our table. This home allowed us to create a country kitchen by using the original dining room. We did this by purchasing only lower cabinets and a free-standing pantry. I had a china cabinet for my dishes. With faith we moved. With the help of Patrick, family and friends we made a home. God has truly blessed us and we have been here going on 30 years. Your list will be different. This was my dream. Know yourself and learn what is important for you to live and find the mission God has planned for you. I will be praying for you.