Mom – Yes that is you. Please remember that you are experiencing physical and emotional changes. You are now a 24/7 caregiver. It will take time for your hormone levels to return to normal. You might feel blue. It is vitally important to you and your baby’s wellbeing to be aware of how you are
feeling and talk to your medical provider about postpardum depresson.
You and your newborn will be on a six week learning curve. A newborn’s
tummy is really small so baby will need feeding frequently and you will be exhausted from lack of sleep.
Crying – Birth to 3 months
Crying is baby’s way to communicate hunger, discomfort, distress or a need for your attention. Babies under 6 months cannot be spoiled. They do not understand that you are another person. Responding to baby’s cries reasurres baby his needs will be met. Soon you will be able to read your baby’s cries and cues. Newborn’s reach a crying peak at about 6 weeks and then their crying starts to decrease. By 3 months babies typically cry for about 1 hour a day.
Colic – Colic is defined as crying that begins and ends for no reason lasting at least 3 hours a day, happens at least 3 days a week and continues for 3 weeks to 3 months. Please discuss crying with your medical provider if you suppect colic.
Relationships – So much is changing and it is important to find time for being with your hubby. This is a big change for him too. Encourage him
to get to know baby. Baby knows the sound of his voice and he will soon
recognize his scent too. Try to carve out time to be together.
IMPORTANT SAFETY INFORMTION: Baby’s need you to support their neck.
It is also important to place the baby on his back to sleep. Never shake baby.
Breastfeeding – This is your decision. Please talk to a lactation specialist and
your medical provider. If you can give your baby the colostrum that comes
before the milk that would be a special gift for the both of you.
2 months – Read baby’s cues. Moving head toward breast or bottle – I’m
hungry. Eyes bright, awake and alert – Time for play. If baby turns his head away, cries, or arches his back – I’ve had enough. Baby recognizes faces, voices and smells.
3 months – Baby is learning to trust. He relies on you for comfort. This helps baby learn to comfort himself. Baby babbles and opens his hands.
God Bless, Trudy